When you getting older 當你老了

All of the heart-break broke up won’t beharder than the final good-bye in the life. When that day comes to you, thebroke up that you have been through just was a piece of cake. Sometimes ourlover leaving us only will make our life better.

所有痛徹心扉的分手都不會痛苦過人生的最后一別。當那一天到來，你所經歷的分手只不過是小事一樁。有時候我們的愛人離開我們只是為了讓我們的生活更美好。

How many times should we have togo through the separate so that we could get used to the people get into ourlife then go away, and understand that there is no forever in our life? It isfar better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.

我們要經歷多少次分離才會習慣別人走進我們的生活然后又離開，才會明白生活是沒有永遠可言的。最好是用耐心與平靜來處理這些事情。

Every separate with love or hateis a painful split. If you couldn’t smile to say goodbye, then could yousilently turn around, close your eyes, hold on your tears and leave. No oneforce you to fall in love with him. Sooner or later, you will smile face toyour painful. You will thank the guy who had leaved you, because he doesn’tdeserve your love, your fineness, your infatuation. He is just not the one foryou.

每一次帶著愛或者恨的分離都是痛苦的撕裂。如果你不能笑著說再見，那么你能默默地轉身，閉上你的眼睛，忍住淚水然后離開么？沒人逼你愛上他，遲早你都會笑著面對你的痛苦。你會感謝那個離開你的男人，因為他不配得到你的愛，你的好，你的迷戀。他不是你要的那個人。

In our lifetime, it will be greatif we could be together with our lover, if not, maybe you don’t fit to eachother.Sometimes the one you loved just a passers-by in your life, he show upin your life to make you learn to cherish and pay, to make you know what youreally what in your life.

在我們一生中，能和相愛的人在一起是極好的，如果不能，也許只是你們不合適對方。有時候你愛的那個人只是你人生中的過客，他出現在你的生活中，讓你學會了珍惜與付出，讓你知道你到底想要的是什么。

Every no ending relationship is anexperience and toughening for you. At the moment of break up, your heart brokeinto pieces, you cry a river, but all you left to do is get up, dry your tearsand move on. There is one or a few you love with your life, only just becausehe leave you first, he sad he doesn’t love you anymore, but you have no chanceto say the same word to him. In this case, you leave it along, it’s fine.

每段沒有結局的感情都是一段經驗，讓你堅強。在分手的那一刻，你的心碎了，你淚流成河，但你能做的就是站起來，擦干淚水，然后繼續走下去。在你人生中會有那么一個或者幾個你愛的人，只是因為他先離開你，他說他不再愛你，但你沒有機會去對他說同樣的話，如果真的遇到這樣的事情，你就別管這個了，一切會好的。

When you getting older, I meanreally old, maybe you will remember the one who had leaved you, you willremember the fuzzy face in your mind, you will thank him for leaving, and it’she who make room for your happiness.

當你變老了，我的意思是真的很老那種，也許你會記得那個離開你的人，你會記得你腦海中那張模糊的臉，你會感謝他離開了你，因為是他的離開給你讓出了幸福的空間。