The Dangers of Spoil the Child

Nowadays, it is not rare to see that theparents spoil the child, they love the kid by the way they think it’s best forthem. When it comes to spoil the child, different people have differentopinions, some people think that it is fine to spoil the child, parents shouldtreat them as best as they could; while the rest held that parents should teachthe child rationally. In my point of view, I agree with the later one.

現在父母溺愛孩子并不少見，他們用他們以為是最好的方式去愛他們的孩子。每當說到溺愛孩子的問題，不同的人有不同的想法。有的人認為寵溺孩子是好的，父母應該盡可能地對他們好；然而剩下的人認為父母應該理智地教育孩子。就我看來，我同意后者。

 Inthe first place, parents are the children’s first teacher, they will believeeverything from their parents’ education and they are a good copycat, they willsimulate the action form their parents. For instance, when a child fight inschool, some parents will not analysis why the fight begins, they will blamethe child who fight with their kid no matter it is their kin’s fault or not.This is absolutely make the child believe that he is right about everything, whichwill make them hard to tell what is wrong or right.

第一，父母是孩子的第一個老師，他們會相信所有的從父母所教的東西，而且他們都是很好的模仿者，他們會模仿他們父母的一舉一動。例如，當孩子在學校打架了，有些父母不會分析為什么會打起來，他們只會責備那個和他們孩子打起來的那個人，不管是不是他們孩子的錯。這絕對會讓孩子相信他做的所有的事情都是對的，這會讓他難以分清是與非。

Inthe second place, since now lots parents buy a whole bunch expensive stuff fortheir child, it might easily cause the problem of wasting or comparing withothers. Children who are proud of their favorable living conditions are moretend to look down to the one are poor. Besides, once they are living in thelower live level than they are expected, they might feel maladjustment or evenabandon themselves.

第二，鑒于很多父母會買很多昂貴的東西給他們的孩子，這很容易會造成孩子的浪費和攀比問題。那些自豪于他們優越的生活條件的孩子們，很可能會看不起比他們窮的孩子。除此之外，一旦他們生活在比他們預想還低的生活水平，他們可能會感到不適應或者干脆自暴自棄。

Tosum up, parents should love their children rationally, but not love themblindly.

總而言之，父母應該理智地愛他們的孩子，而不是盲目的去愛。