Marriage or Job, How to Choose?

From the emergence of " Marry-Upon-Graduation", and the 1970 s to be the maid of honor of 1980s, urban women’s marriage seemsovernight into the early bus. So, faced with more and more women accept theconcept of "early marriage", how to choose? Different women havedifferent choices, some women choose to get married as soon as she graduated,some choose to have stable work first and then look for objects. I think thatmarriage is the root of happiness, and career is a sign of confidence. Youngpeople still need to have their own work first, then to consider the matter ofmarriage.

從“畢婚族”的出現，到70后給80后當伴娘，都市女性的婚姻似乎一夜之間步入了早班車。那么，面對越來越多女性“先婚姻、后事業”的“早婚觀”，人們究竟該怎樣看待呢？不同的女性有不同的選擇，有人選擇畢業就結婚，有人選擇先穩定工作再找對象。我認為，婚姻是幸福的根源，而事業是自信的表現。年輕人還是要先有自己的工作，再考慮婚姻的問題。

Nowadays, aged man is really preferred tochoose those free-standing self-improvement women. Women who has no money andno career are at risk of reduced to a lover. First of all, we have to make surewe know what lifestyle we want, is a housewife or an independent woman?  Then we will be easy to know which life wewant.

這個年代，男人真正比較喜歡是那些自立自強的女人。沒錢沒事業的女人大部分都有淪為小三的危險。首先，我們要清楚自己屬于什么類型的人，是相夫教子的家庭主婦？還是自尊心很強的能獨立生活的，這樣就明確自己想要的生活了。

A woman should learn as much in the patternof the early age, lay the foundation for future career. Don't wait for old age,have the burden of the family, the study and the test, it will be very tired.But hard work, does not affect you going to pursue love and marriage of sweethappiness. If you have a good job and stable position, your situation will bedifferent in your husband’s home.

女人應該在花樣的年齡多學點東西，為以后的事業打基礎。不要等到年紀大了，有了家庭的負擔后，才來考試學習，那樣就會很累。但努力的工作之余，并不影響你去追求愛情和婚姻的甜美快樂。如果你有個好的工作和穩定的事業，在婆家的地位，和在你老公心里的地位是不一樣的。

Actually, this question is as important as askingwhat to eat or sleep, both are inseparable. Modern women, is a good balance whenshe deals with the relationship between family and career, both development. Inreal life, and there is no lack of such a woman. However, women at a young age,first of all, should have their own work. Only independent women can live happily.

其實這個問題就像是問吃飯重要還是睡覺重要一樣，兩者是離不開的。現代優秀的女性，是兩者間優秀的平衡者，只有處理好家庭和事業的關系，兩者并發展才是優秀的女性，在現實生活中并不乏這樣的女人。但是，女人在年輕的時候首先應該要有自己的工作，女人獨立才活的幸福.。