Let it be, Let it go

Haveyou ever worry about some rumors about you? Do you feel sad about wheneveryou remember the people who hurt you badly? Have you get tired ofhearing your parents said your classmates are better than you in study, or thekids in the neighborhood find a good job while you are not. You think you arein a pathetic predicament because you care too much about others eyes,especially from the one you love.

你有沒(méi)有擔(dān)憂過(guò)有關(guān)于你的謠言呢？你有沒(méi)有每當(dāng)想起那些傷害過(guò)你的人就覺(jué)得悲傷呢？你有沒(méi)有厭煩你父母對(duì)你說(shuō)你的同學(xué)學(xué)習(xí)比你好，或者鄰居家的孩子找的工作比你好呢？你之所以覺(jué)得你生活在個(gè)可悲的困境里是因?yàn)槟闾�過(guò)于在乎別人的眼光，特別是你愛(ài)的人的眼光。

Lifeis too short to live happy, you are who you are. You don’t have to pay too muchattention to the opinion from others about you, whether it is good or bad. Ifit is praise, you will feel happy and your self-confidence will be increased. Butif it is detraction, you might feel horrible, and you may self-deprecation.

人生苦短，行樂(lè)需及時(shí)，你就是你，你無(wú)須太過(guò)注意別人對(duì)你的看法，無(wú)論那是好的還是壞的。如果那是贊揚(yáng)，你會(huì)感覺(jué)到快樂(lè)，你的自信心也會(huì)增加。但如果那是誹謗，你會(huì)感覺(jué)很糟糕，你可能還會(huì)自我貶低。

Whyshould we care about that? Why can’t we live just the way we are? Because thereare too many social rules that restrain us. We have to study hard in order tobe able to get a good job; we have to smile all the time in order to makepeople feel you are kind to everyone, even the one who is mean to you. You haveto earn piles of cash so that give your parents “face”.

為什么我們要關(guān)心那些？為什么我們不能按我們的想法活著？因?yàn)橛刑�多的社�?huì)規(guī)則約束著我們。我們要努力學(xué)習(xí)為了能夠找到一份好工作；我們要時(shí)時(shí)刻刻保持微笑為了讓人們覺(jué)得你對(duì)每個(gè)人都很友善，即使是對(duì)你刻薄的人。你得賺一大堆鈔票來(lái)給你的父母臉上添光。

Ina word, it is all the matter of face, such as school thinks long good-lookingface, and the office has a rich have found that, in the face of love is face. Ithink it is time for us to lay down our face, live the way we are, don’t livein other’s eyes. Just be yourself, you will feel happier than before.

總之，所有的問(wèn)題都是面子問(wèn)題，例如在學(xué)校里覺(jué)得長(zhǎng)得好看是有面子，而辦公室里覺(jué)得找個(gè)有錢的就有面子一樣，其實(shí)愛(ài)的都是面子。我認(rèn)為是時(shí)候該放下我們的面子，活出自我，不要活在別人的眼光里。做你自己，你會(huì)覺(jué)得比以前快樂(lè)。