How to Care for Children in a Right Way

Children always are the apple of theirparents’ eyes. With the improving of people’s living standard, the society andparents provide a more privileged life for the children. For a child, he mayexperience no frustration until he grows up. So, some people point out ifchildren living in such circumstance, they may be unfit for the brutalcompetitive society. How to care for children in a right way becomes a hotdebate. I have two suggestions for this question.

 孩子們一直都是他們父母的掌上明珠。隨著人們生活水平的提高，社會和家長都為孩子們提供了更優越的生活。對于一個孩子來說，他可能在長大前都沒經歷過什么挫折。所以有人指出如果孩子們生活在這樣的環境下，他們可能就無法適應這個殘酷的、充滿競爭性的社會。如何正確關愛孩子成了一個熱門話題。我對這個問題有兩個建議。

First of all, parents should let theirchildren go. Everyone is unique in the world and everyone has their ownthought. Although parents care for their children, they can’t arrangeeverything for their children. Besides, maybe what they arrange is not thething that their children want. They have their own way to go and they have toface everything by themselves one day. Why not let them grow up little bylittle? Spoiling children can provide a non-polluted environment for them fromthe appearance, but in fact, it will increase the difficulty for them in theirlater life. So parents need to let their children walk on their own, instead oftrying to hold their hands at every turn.

首先，父母應該對孩子放手。每個人在這個世界上都是獨一無二的，而且每個人都是有自己的思想的。盡管父母關愛他們的孩子，但是他們不能為孩子安排好一切。此外，也許他們所安排的并不是他們孩子想要的。他們有自己的路要走，而且總有一天他們得自己面對一切。為什么不讓他們長大一點點地長大呢？從表面上看溺愛可以為孩子提供一個無污染的環境，但事實上，它會增加他們以后生活的困難。所以父母應該對自己的孩子放手，而不是時時刻刻扶著他們。

In addition, parents should listen to theirchildren. Though children’s thought is immature to the adult, they need tolisten to their children, so that they can understand what the children wantand need. This is a good way to treat people. If parents only put their thought onchildren without asking anything, it is the way to treat animals. And ifparents understand their children’s thought, they can lead them in a proper wayto make children grow up healthily.

 此外，父母應該傾聽孩子的聲音。盡管對于大人來說孩子們的思想并不成熟，但是他們需要傾聽孩子的聲音，這樣他們才能夠了解孩子們的想要和需要。這是與他人相處的好方法。如果父母只是把自己的想法強加在孩子的身上，這是對待動物的方式。如果家長了解孩子的想法，他們可以用正確的方式引導孩子，讓他們健康成長。

In summary, using the proper to care forchildren is necessary. It can really help children grow up healthily.

總之，正確關愛孩子是很有必要的。這真的能幫助孩子們健康成長。